Hi Believe - Some days I don't feel so strong

You and Sage have great advise, though. I need to go back to the begining, and combine it with my leanings towards treating this as a new relationship. A timely reminder from Mak on Maya's thread
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Hi Maya, Mak - This is timely for me too

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W’s position shifted from telling me to do whatever I wanted to telling me she wasn’t happy that I was moving forward without W.


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I need to create the same environment with NG, he seems to be way to comfortable that I will stick around, no matter what he does.

Slowly



I just may have taken the notion of helping NG feel safe a tad too far. I know the few times I went off on my own, he was quite perturbed. Need to inject some of that into the next couple of weeks, and see where it gets us.

Looking for more ideas, Slowly

A Liberal Allowance of Time