Did he say what he was noticing that indicated he felt your insecurity? Reassuring you that there is no reason for you to feel this way is all well and good, but sort of invalidating--at least I feel that way.
And ARE you feeling insecure? About what? What are you doing to help yourself bridge this?
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
