Hi Yaz - It is terrific to have your perspective on this. I've decided to move on to a new relationship, and I think at some level, I'm really avoiding the whole forgiveness thing, it just seems too hard right now. The enormity of the betrayal still pierces when I think about it. Best not to think about it at all.
I suspect at some time I'll have to take it out of the box, but hopefully by then other more positive memories would be there to prop us up. At least, thet's the rationale.
