This is a big revelation. And it has been evident that you have been feeling some anger....as well as expected. I believe that there have been lots of other piecing stories that chronicle the anger JUST as things are getting better.
DB is such an act of self (denial) control... we are constantly sitting on our emotions in order to bring about change that moves them closer. We are so focused on getting them back, that we ignore our feelings.
I guess when and if we are lucky enough to be in your position, the thing to remember would be that our lives have become a pressure cookers... take the lid off slowly, Slowly!
It doesn't help that we all WISH we were in your shoes...because...your shoes are rubbing you the wrong way right now. So.
Take your time and focus on yourself a bit. Pamper yourself and see if you can identify some ways to release your anger ...not let it loose...but let it go. Not easy. Not sure if I could.
And DO read those other success stories because you are passing some similar emotional backwash many of them felt while on their way back to very strong and loving new relationships with their spouses.
