Quote: I also think that X is behaving 'intimately' with you in the guy way: guys often feel that intimacy is DOING things together, and talking on the phone is a biggie guy intimacy thing. (Weird, but true.) So, even tho WE actually know what true intimacy is ....
I have been quite puzzled by NG's constant reference to the fact that OW 'understands' he has moved on because he and I are doing things together. I just did not get it - how us doing ho-hum daily stuff together can be a signal to her. OK, now I see the light, for NG this is the deal. Of course, OW is still not getting the message, but hey, that's not my problem
