Briefly, I am 39, H is 41, we are school sweethearts, have been together for 21 years, lived together for 18, married for 10. Last June I noticed changes in H’s behavior, nothing major, just more attention to looks, clothes, unpredictable movements etc
H dropped bomb on October 11th, was having EA with ex-colleague (42 yrs, M with 2 kids). I did all the wrong things, cried, plead to end, to no avail. In fact, EA escalated to PA shortly after. By normal description, affair has been over since March, but phone and email contact continues.
Discovered Michele and DR in February, and have been participating on this board since March. Happy with personal progress, have some queasy moments about R.
