Oh - one good thing about the conversation this morning. I'd always assumed that some money bf had asked from me (if he could borrow) in January 2003 went towards ex-OW's hotel bill for 2 days (since I didn't get out of the apt. quick enough, I didn't know she was coming for a visit until a week prior).
He said that whatever money I lent him went to rent or car, that he never paid for ex-OW's hotel bill, even though she thought he should pay for at least part of it (and it was something that irritated her). He did a LOT for her, saved her hundreds or more on a trip - so I don't know why that would irritate her.
I am very glad to know that I didn't help fund her trip. I wish I'd not cleaned for her arrival, but I learned a lesson that way. Lesson? Don't humiliate myself, I'm worth more than that.
