This is off topic but the ring discussion reminded me of a funny incident with my own engagement ring. Several years ago my ring needed resetting and local jeweler was having a resetting sale. So I went on Sat while H was working overtime The salesman kept bugging me about getting a more expensive setting with additional baguettes, while I wanted a plain one like the original. He kept egging me on with smart comments like 'your H won't let you spend the money', yada, yada. Finally, I said pretty emphatically, 'My H would say I can have whatever I want, but that's not the point - I don't want to spend that much money.' Another jeweler standing nearby said 'Are there any more at home like you?'