BF has bought a ring, it's on order and should be here this week sometime. I was hoping he'd surprise me * with * it, but since he didn't, I did let him know what I might like as far as his giving it to me. If he has other ideas, that is great - but I really didn't want him just pulling it out of a bag while were sitting on the couch either.
We had a wonderful, fun weekend - I think think a lot about the trust issue and it's just something we have to discuss a bit more. I don't want him ever to confide anything in someone he might be remotely attracted to. I know that when I was married and going through counseling, the one thing I did hold firm to was not discussing the counseling and such with most guys I knew (unless they were just friends and there was no way I'd ever be attracted to them). Nor did I discuss marriage problems with anyone like that.
So...hopefully within a week or so I'll have a ring on my finger. I still would have NO idea what type of wedding to have. I think since ex-b hasn't married, and it's his family mostly that would be at any wedding, that I'll let him ultimately decide (I have different choices that would be okay, and I'd let him know what they are).
Even if we had a casual wedding-reception, it'd be like - do we just invite family? Family and close friends? Family/close friends/acquaintances?
