Oh - I start volunteering tomorrow, finally! Once a week with an organization that grants wishes to children who have life threatening illnesses.
I am not stopping with building my life and doing things that are important outside of BF. I do need to be careful as far as eating around him - I always eat more when we go out, but I think once we move together, it will be easier - I will have my own stuff in the fridge I can eat. And who knows, maybe he'll eat a bit better too.