The subject has been discussed a number of times, but I don't think he's gone looking. I did tell him I wanted it to be a surprise if he gave me one - not me going shopping with him, but him getting it for me. I would rather have a ring that he chose (even if it wouldn't be my first choice) than to go shopping together. It's like...when he used to get me flowers, it often was when we were shopping. He didn't do it much on his own, he'd be like "do you want flowers?" (sometimes without a hint, sometimes with). I'd rather he just have gotten the flowers on his own, even if I wasn't the one choosing them. I like nice suprises.
I did tell him I didn't want him to spend much money.
