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Congrats and good luck!How long was EX-B's R with OW?




Probably 6 months EA, then very short lived (he saw her for 10 or so days) PA when he went to Europe to see her. Then it was over within a month or 5 weeks after that. They didn't ML, and I believe him when he says that.

He did call me this morning - I'd pretty much given up on hearing from him, but he did. And he said "I love you" before I did on hanging up. And he said he'd call me tonight. So everything is okay, I don't want to discuss too much anyway while I'm gone.

Oh...and the relationship with ex-OW was over a year or so ago now. So this took a while to get to this place. He seemed to be completely free by July 4th last year - and we've gotten closer ever since, but he said he didn't want to get back together as recent as 3 months ago. So you never, ever know what is going to happen.

I don't know now either. I just keep remembering that he's been thinking about this and it wasn't a snap decision. He really looked at me with a lot of love yesterday, like he used to when we were first together and our R was new. It was amazing, it was like he finally let himself be able to really turn the feelings back on. I just don't want him to turn them back off.

Our R, our conversations...it's been so great the last few months. I have been thinking just how I know he needs his space, and really...I need to make sure I have a life outside of him as well. My world can't revolve around him the same way as it did (if we are getting back together). He can be the biggest part of it, just not all of it.