It did me good to read this post. I can't remember the last time my h told me he loved me. It's been maybe a year and a half? I don't even know. Now we have been sep for over 5 months and he has gone so far as to say it is over (as far as he is concerned) during a couple of c sessions we had. I quit pushing, trying to get him to go to c, trying to talk about r. So neither one of is has talked about div or anything. I have fantasies about his telling me that he loves me again and how he is sorry for the past year and a half. But I know that may be a long time in coming....if ever. But as long as I do not give up, keep DB and praying, I am like you....I know that things will work out for the best and if it turns out that I have to use these hard lessons in my NEXT relationship...then that guy will be a lucky man and it will be my h's loss. Ha.
