Wow, girlfriend!!!!!!

Maybe it was that pink blouse that did it? (Everybody - dfb sends me a picture of herself - we're dieting buddies - and she's wearing the exact same pink blouse that I have - how odd is that?).

And the getting married in Vegas thing - how sweet. I don't know if I'd do it, though. This guy has been such an avoider - I'd want to see him stand up in front of ALL your friends and family and make that commitment. Doesn't mean you have to have a bridezilla wedding (I know you wouldn't) - a simple backyard ceremony will do - but to my mind, there's something important about making that commitment in front of everyone you know. Plus I don't blame you for wanting to take a little time to see if his changes are for real!

Maybe you can even get him to start working out with you

(Hmmm...can you get married in a black leather miniskirt? )

Ellie