Thanks Tom for the advice.. I am honest with my H I just don't always share everything in that area.. It is a good idea if I can bring myself to say that. I worry that if I tell him that he will in turn reject me and take care of himself because he feels rejected by me. I guess what I worry about more than anything is making things worse instead of better but I do need to be willing to try and if it backfires then try something else and be honest letting him know it was just trying something new.. Because yes I would rather be with him..
