Quote: Now, before you say it, yes I KNOW that this scenario would never happen b/c you would probably be either dead from shock or you would recover just fine and give her the ride of her life, but it is an analogy!!
You got that one dead to rights! And it has happened.
If it is so important to Smiles then she could "just do it."
She mentioned something about not feeling attractive. It is oh so true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. For example, my SIL is an attractive woman - but I cringe whenever I see her. When my W was 9 months pregnant I wanted her more than ever.
But I hear you about not feeling attractive. My W most definiately doesn't want me. It kinda eats at your self-esteem.