Welcome to our wonderful/terrible world. I could probably write a book in an attempt to fully answer your questions, but I'll give it a shot. The first thing you should understand is that there is a difference between being the HD partner in a sexual relationship and being a woman who experiences sexual arousal/desire. Plenty of women who experience sexual arousal/desire just don't feel it in connection with the man they are currently in relationship with for emotional and other reasons.
Quote: When I see television and all the lovey dovey crap, I find myself viewing those females as using there 'siren ways' as a way to gain power and control over men.
There are probably women who do this, but they are not women with high sex drives. They are probably women who use their sexy looks because they like power and control. Think of the ridiculous situation that would result if a woman with a truly high sex drive tried to use it for power and control. She would entice a man into a relationship with the lure of frequent sex, but in order to exert any power she would have to deny him the sex unless he did what she wanted, but by denying him sex she would be denying herself and since she truly has a high sex drive she would be unhappy without the sex. IT MAKES NO SENSE.
Quote: Ladies, is it really true you actually feel desire!?????
Yes, most women feel the desire to have sex. The HD women on this board are not freaks of nature.LOL. Go to the grocery store, most of the women you see want to have sex with some sort of frequency. Some every day, some just once a month.
Quote: What does that feel like for you? What types of behaviors do you display when this desire happens?
What does getting or having an erection feel like for you? Not an easy question to answer, right. Warm, wet, tingly would be a basic physical description ,but there are all sorts of mental and emotional components that come into play also. I don't know that I display any sort of particular behavior when I'm aroused beyond doing whatever I can to get my H interested in responding.
Please post more information about your personal situation if you are interested in help.
P.S. I'm wondering why the only high drive woman in your family is "the crazy black sheep", maybe this has something to do with your situation. LOL
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
I could probably write a book in an attempt to fully answer your questions, but I'll give it a shot. The first thing you should understand is that there is a difference between being the HD partner in a sexual relationship and being a woman who experiences sexual arousal/desire. Plenty of women who experience sexual arousal/desire just don't feel it in connection with the man they are currently in relationship with for emotional and other reasons. 