Nita, Lots of people (myself and Mojo, to name names..) have told you that resuming ML could only benefit your R with your husband. Why are you still gathering opinions on it? Why not just try it and see what effect it has on things? You said that you are both enjoying it, so why not?
I think I wrote in my original post that ML should be something done because you love each other and want a deeper and more meaningful relationship. YOU should not use it to lure him home or to try and keep him. HE should not use it as a way to get his jollies while keeping OW on the side. Only you two know if either of these scenarios is occurring.
I can tell you this, though: If I had left my LDH because of a lack of sex, I would not be returning home until the sex life had been restored and was fulfilling. It only makes sense, ya know? If you had been the one to leave because, say, your H was a workaholic, I doubt you'd be returning home until he cut down on his work hours and started spending more time as a family.
Just some thoughts for you and I wish you all the best..
