I think you know the answer to this.In a SSM, MB is one of the tools that helps keep a spouse faithful. After you get over the guilty feeling, it is a way to cope. "Rosey palms" never says "NO", is too tired, mad, upset at you, etc.etc.etc. Too bad spouses don't care about this need. Thinking she has me well trained (to go without), she might be surprised to find herself all alone someday. What a shame, because it wouldn't be too difficult to work out a compromise solution.
