Quote: Is this why you are reluctant to have any true PM discussions with your W? Do you feel that she would choose divorce over passion?
I think it is a distinct possibility.
Remember, her mantra is "You have to be okay with me saying 'no.'" And yes, I've told her, that it would be easier to take her 'no's if she said 'yes' once in a while. Her pat response: "you have to be comfortable with my 'no' before the 'yes' will come." And on and on it goes. My point is, me presenting her with the "crucible" would probably prove to her that I am not "okay" with her saying "no."
And yes, I know she loves me and would prefer to not get divorced, but there is still some doubt that she will "choose passion over divorce." This is a fear I need to face. I know this.
Thanks for asking, though. And, you're right, it should have been "whom." My grammar gets worse when I'm in a sexual deficit. Just imagine how bad I am when I'm well lubricated!
Hairdog, whom Yoda told, "face your fear you must!"
