WB,
H knows that I would pursue SOMETHING, an annulment or living in my own apartment or whatever, so it wasn't an empty threat. However, it does lessen the impact of "married for life" doesn't it!

And how can you say that your wife knows it's a bluff?! You've already divorced her over it! What's to stop you from doing it again, when the kids are grown? Don't you think your W thinks about that and worries about it? Man, I would if I were her!

HP