Although it has been several years since I read the book, I can tell you Paul that it gave me a way to speak to my husband about sex. A way to dialogue with him and really GET to him, in a way that my other methods weren't doing.
So, no, just reading the book (or any book) is not going to get you more sex. Being willing to lay it on the line and deal with the consequences (the really scary part for most of us HD people) is what will change your marriage.
Giving her a book, or two or ten, is not going to do it. YOU have to be willing to spell out for her just what she can expect to happen if she decides not to make this a priority. It sucks, but trying to gently nudge her into coming to this realization on her own probably will not work.
Honeypot, whose frequency is up from 1x/6 weeks to 4x/week for two years and counting..
