Quote: I do plan on reading it, but I'm curious if it's really working. For example, you say I have to read it, but has it helped you? If so, how? It doesn't seem to be frequency! I can't really tell if the people advocating PM are really getting a better sex life, or if they're just learning better ways to accept the crappy sex life they've got.
I can tell you it is DEFINITELY working for me. It may not be entirely evident in my postings so far, but for sure both the quantity and the quality are way higher now than they were before I read it. Just learning that I didn't have to just wait around for W to figure things out was HUGE. Yes, we've had some heated moments, and yes, things are still not where I would ideally want them, but life is a LOT better now than it was 3 months ago. Our love for each other is growing, and I have no doubt that we're "on track to getting back on track", if that makes any sense. I can definitely see that we're on an improvement curve. We still have a LONG way to go, but we've also come a LONG way already!