I am waffling back and forth between thinking about seducing him tonight (or trying to, lol) and just leaving him alone til the chaos in his mind subsides.
Hi HP, I'm thinking that you should go back to what worked, which was giving him the benefit of the doubt and keeping that chipper attitude. I am beginning to see that if I don't get the response I am wanting from H, the insecurities come back and I think the old ways are going to return pronto. Remember that at any time you can do the firm PM thing to reset him...giving the situation a little space while he clears his head may be an interesting experiment.
Right now I am going to give H some space as well....I am remembering that his attitude is no longer that angry/resentful/withholding stance right now, and I feel he knows his responsibility to the marriage at this point. I am feeling a little less anxious, and am working on just loving and accepting his mental state too, after all he does so much as a family man. J
