A cold doesn't bother me too much either, as far as sex is concerned. H used to NEVER be up for sex while having a cold but he has changed his view on this in the last year. (go H!) We both have colds right now and that may have played into thing last night too. But I really think it was a mind-overload thing going on with him. Couldn't possibly even THINK about sex.
And he was complaining pretty bitterly last night about not having any time to himself. I'm not sure there is anything that can be done about this, as it is pretty much our life stage at the moment--little kids suck up every spare moment with their neediness and helplessness.
I am waffling back and forth between thinking about seducing him tonight (or trying to, lol) and just leaving him alone til the chaos in his mind subsides.
