I got sick of seeing hand towels stuffed in the towel bar willy nilly so I ripped the t.b. out of the wall and installed (well ok H did that part) hooks. That way, you just hang them up and problemo solved.
OR, you could have just tossed the towel to her and told her to do it the "proper" way since she is the only one who knows the double top secret hanging method.
But see.......I'm a b*tch. An easygoing b*tch, but a b*tch nonetheless.
Boy would I like to march in your house sometime and tell her what she's missing out on by focusing on hand towels instead of more useful things to do with hands.