I only hope Journey had better luck than us two losers.
I could tell early on that there was a good possibility that nothing would happen. You know, I find it so funny that anything out of the ordinary (even GOOD news!) can occupy his mind to such an extent that even a pleasurable activity is out of the question. This is a baffling way to live your life, to me. BUT I have accepted that this is how he is and I certainly knew to expect it.
I showered and shaved before bedtime and then laid naked on the bed, under the ceiling fan, waiting for him. The previous night he had told me "I love seeing you naked; I'd rather see you naked than clothed" so I thought I'd go with that (new to me) info. I guess it's only true on nights when he WANTS to see me naked. So now I need to brush up on my mind reading skills!
Ah well, it was a nice night anyway. We snuggled a bit in bed, although there was NO close contact lest I get the wrong impression about his intent, and we drifted off to sleep. Well he did. lol
Tonight we meet the buyer of his vehicle at the bank and transfer it over. Then his mind will be totally occupado with buying a new vehicle and so tonight will be a bust too.
I have to tell ya: I just don't GET this notion of waiting til the rest of your life slows down to have sex. I mean, isn't that going to be a loooooooong wait? How many people do you know who are retired and carefree at 37?!
So, I am no longer in the mood to celebrate. But I am still in a happy mood.
Your wife........man.
What is she thinkin.
"Alright, go to bed." THAT is a way to speak to a grown man?? Like a child whose hand is in the candy jar....
Pretty sour candy if you ask me!
Hey what about this: Next time she says Alright go to bed, why don't you counter with "Ok, what night will it be okay to do this?"
