Hi HP... Three nites in a row...my turn to turn green! I know the once a week date nite thing will not work for the long term, and we have been getting in a second time recently...there's just a lot of anxiety on my part over when/if that will happen. Since I am the one with the higher desire, I am leaving it up to him to make that move; I just sort of remain available to the possibility during cuddle time. I am not good at initiating...he has always been the initiator, and I am not sure how he would respond if I did some direct touching. That takes me waaay out of my comfort zone and for now I would rather wait it out and do without. Last nite I was okay with cuddle nite being a dud nite( and will be ok with it tonite too) but I feel I do need some reassurance from him that there will be spontaneous nites on a consistent basis. Right now I am enjoying the affectionate, good vibe feeling in the house. J
