Mon nite ended up being a cuddle nite, and I imagine tonite will be too. We go to the counselor tomorrow ( the last appt was two weeks ago) and I have to say that I have noticed H has gotten more affectionate and open. He seems less witholding, and this shift in attitude makes the desire issue a lot easier to handle. I am still hoping for more spontaneous LMing, but I think that's a desire issue H will have to push through when he's ready. For now I will concentrate on making date nite fulfilling, emotional and fun. HP...............I kept my fingers crossed for you; my legs were uncrossed to no avail,lol......hope you had a successful nite! J
