What if you enacted another date nite? Like Wednesday night? Or what if you lobbied for the date night to stay on Saturday but then asked for one other night during the week which is initiated by either one of you?
Hi HP, I don't want to add another "date nite" in bc the pressure does seem to interfere with my desire. In counseling, I mentioned that my goal would be to ML 2x/week, and that seems to be happening in the past few weeks. But then I was reading Tim's idea of keeping each night open to see what the possibilities are, and I like that. I remember MM's comment to that was that HD's keep upping the ante, and it's true. When will I ever be satisfied?
Tonight he came home and gave me a huge, enthusiastic hug and just took son to his game. I thought that's what I missed most of all...his affection...and how fortunate I am to have it back. I decided I am not going to push things ( for today anyway),lol.
