Oh Journey, we'd be dangerous if given the chance. Throw Mojo in the mix and who knows how many places we'd get kicked out of! LOL
Hey I had an idea...it does NOT correspond with your second post on decreasing the pressure but I thought I'd throw it out anyway.
What if you enacted another date nite? Like Wednesday night? Or what if you lobbied for the date night to stay on Saturday but then asked for one other night during the week which is initiated by either one of you? That way, he wins...cause he knows that the pressure to perform is still only 2x per week, but you get the spontaneity that you crave. Just an idea.
Yeah, the EC. I love the EC and ideally would like it to stick around every day. But ya know what...it makes me horny! When we are around each other and the love is a flowin, it just makes me want to take it to the next level.
I haven't decided yet how I'm going to approach tonight. I want him, that's for sure, but I don't know if I'm pushing my luck or if he is feeling it too. That is the hard thing about having a spouse who will NOT let me in on his desire...I'm constantly fumbling around like an idiot in the dark, only knowing that I've bumped into a table when it's too late and the bruise is already there. Just give me a damn light already! Ok, my analogies are not nearly as eloquent and well thought out as Mojo's but you get the idea.
Have a good one and by all means follow and keep that EC. It's almost as good as having drinks with the girls.
