The only nite he is really "up" for things on a consistent basis is date nite, which of course corresponds to my lowest desire time. His sexuality right now reminds me of that cartoon with the frog, who launches into a song and dance when no one is looking, but then just croaks the rest of the time. He has it in his head that date nite is performance time, and I don't know how to get him to dance the rest of the week. J---who would be in big trouble if she had a drink w Honey
