I swear I could have written your post word for word. Spooky.
Also, I laughed at the 50's sitcom crack cause that is me all over, too. The cheerful Honey is working for the time being, but I also want to reserve the right to be a total crab if I have had a bad day, which happens quite often!
He is just a weirdo who never acts crabby when he gets home, no matter how bad his days are and some of them are baaaaad.
I do the same thing re: the cuddling. I do just want cuddling but there is no denying that I am aroused at the same time. So he hears me say that cuddling only is fine, but he feels the pressure from me to turn it into more simply because I am aroused and he feels the need to follow suit.
Hey I have a few more questions for you, lol.
Is it possible that he was wanting a HJ after you were finished and then was too shy to ask for it? I know that H has said that sometimes he is just too beat for the physical exertion that ML requires (this from the guy who is in top top shape).
Or, would he ever go for laying back and letting you be on top so that you could "do" him? Or, maybe he wanted a BJ....
He said that if he wants something, he'll ask for it. Has this been your experience with him? Does he really ask?
Aren't I just the nosiest thing you've ever seen...
I am just picturing my H in this situation and I know full well that he would not say what he wanted, he would wait for me to offer and then he could either accept or decline.
