Hi HP, I am a long way off from going threadless...feel free to post here! Sounds like you had a very connected w/e and that the tone in the house is pleasant...I know when it starts to feel a bit 50's sitcom here I need to sabotage it by throwing in some hostility, anger, sarcasm, complaints, etc. I have been doing that a lot less recently.
Regarding last nite's interaction, we didn't have any verbal communication...he has told me in the past that if he needs something from me, he will ask, so I decided to allow him to give to me, and was glad he could do so without the pressure of ML. I could have thrown in a simple "are you okay?" type thing though. I see that even though I say to him on our cuddle nites that I am not looking for sex, I do want the reassurance in some way that he is into it, and so I am pressuring him for a hard on in a way. Also, my body tends to be very responsive these days, so he feels pressure to satisfy me even though I say I just want cuddling. He also has the added pressure of adding some novelty to the mix when we do ML. Tonite I am hoping for a low key nite while I sort through some of this; hopefully there will be EC. J
