Hi HP, I think that performance is an issue for him, and he has made defensive comments like I am too sexual now, that we are not 20, etc. ( he is 43 and in excellent health). Interestingly, he has no problem on date nite, which for me feels like pressure and makes me somewhat LD, although I seem to break through it easily,lol. I am hoping by working on the emotional connection and building the rapport between us so that he can feel trust in me again, that the his sexuality will come forth more readily. It's hard finding the right balance of pushing things along/giving some space. Sooo happy to hear you had a nice weekend...details please!!!! J
