Quote: I hope that it is okay I post here. If not please let me know
Hi Smiles, Of course it's okay for you to post here. I appreciate your comments and it's nice to know I am not alone. When he started the weekly date nite thing, it was a good idea in that it pushed both of us to interact as a couple and to become intimate on a regular basis. The problem became when I decided to really confront my desire issue and I realized I wanted a fuller relationship, while he was content with the way things were going. I had to ask myself if I had a right to want more, knowing I had been LD for so long. I forgave myself, and saw his role in things too, and decided I needed to move forward. Right now I am just taking things day by day...I do see improvement, and I am trying not to get too frustrated while I pursue my dreams of a fulfilling, passionate marriage. I am also the type of person that once I set my mind on something, I can be relentless, so I need to give some breathing space to the situation as well. Journey
When you refuse me you confuse me What makes you think I'll let you in again? ( Maroon 5)
