I hope that it is okay I post here. If not please let me know.. And I won't anymore.. ;-) Well I can really relate IJ well we don't have an obligatory night but it does seem like he does do ML as mercy at times and to say he did so he won't have to feel he needs to for awhile 4 - 7 days or so.. Looking back I don't think we ever had a lot of passion.. Some but it was never extreme early in the realionship so I guess that left little to lose when it did disipitate.. I donno a guess.. Anyway I do feel for you IJ. Do you at least take care of your own needs if he only is willing to be with you on a schedule oncce a week???
