Date nite is still on for tomorrow( Saturdays). It's never a problem bc he is in control of it and will initiate. It's my opportunity to try to develop more EC ( right now I want to work on verbal communication when ML). Tonite we are both getting along well...I thought he would be complaining about how I kept him up last nite, how tired he is, etc., but once again I see a change in his attitude. It's making me see him less as an insensitive control freak ...he is trying, and that's a good suggestion, HP, to keep a journal of the good stuff. For my part, I am trying to be upbeat and positive and not get into negative thinking and dwelling on the past. I am certain that we will get into some sort of bad dynamic/argument/fused state fairly soon, and my goal is to not get overly upset and to not launch into psychobabble while being self assertive and maintaining a sense of humor. Yeah right. J
