And to add... H was the one to come up with the weekly date nite idea to establish a more regular pattern, but since that time I have been the one to want more in terms of EC. He has a hard time doing EC( hugging, kissing) without feeling the need for it to progress to sex, which I don't understand. I have told him 1000 times I just want a nice hug or kisses goodnite but he interprets this as pressure for sex.
