Quote: Although I have other desires, I am willing to tolerate the anxiety of not having those desires met. For instance, tonite I would love it if he pulled me away from this computer and ML to me in a hot way, but we are just not at that level. I am not going to give up on my dreams, but I cannot forever be upset with what I don't have. I am figuring that bit by bit, I can continue to push my agenda (i.e., enter the growth cycle) once I achieve this basic level of comfort.
IHJ, that's EXACTLY where I'm at - thanks for describing it so well!
