J, Is it important to you, to include role playing in your sex life?
I think I would like it if it was there, but I can easily live without it.
I think we all have our own lists of necessities and niceties...have you given any thought to what things you are unwilling to live without in your sexual life and what things could be ditched?
My own list is so blasted short that I can't believe that my H has trouble meeting it, but I literally woke up this morning with "give him the benefit of the doubt" in my mind and I am doing so today, even if it kills me.
P.S. If you see a fat pg lady hitchhiking on Diff Hwy, would you please stop and get her?!?!