Quote: I can only say that if I'd been your H's OW, and you had written me an e-mail saying you wanted him, loved him, and were willing to work hard on the marriage, I'd have backed off. I wouldn't have been able to handle the guilt.
Yes, that is exactly why I find your perspective so interesting and helpful to me, Pen.
My H's OW never even acknowledged my emails-- she hid from me, but pushed the D even harder, researched D for him, saying she should not have to put up with this. I could go on-- I won't. Obviously, you seem a very different person than she is.
Thanks again for talking about this. Every situation has some differences because people are different, but to me there are some things in life that really are black and white.
This discussion has been more helpful than you know as I sort my own head out.
