Friends: Season 5--New perspectives

[TripleJ]

Bets, I really am flattered that you hold me in such high regard. I don't feel deserving of the words you speak of me, but it is comforting to know that when your chips are down, you know you can always come to me. And I will be there.

And YES, it is mutual!

Pen, I want to tell you how much I appreciate your honesty and willingness to open your self up here with your story. I was a walk away like Betsey said, but soon found that my place should be back in the house, which in turn, was denied. I saw no need for an OW, but my W saw differently for herself.

There is something you wrote in your post that really perked my ears up, and I hope you could explain it to me. I am not here to judge why you said it, but I truly am wondering the thought process behind it.....

I do believe they were very ill-matched, that sooner or later it would have been someone else,

You wrote this about the ex, and how you thought they were ill matched. Why did you think that?

You see, I often wonder what story is told to the OMs by my W, whether it is the whole story or not. I do have my suspicions, but I don't think I will ever get the answers from them.

Do you feel that you were given the whole story at the onset of your R with your H now? Or was it a one sided deal and then learned more as you went along?

I am sorry if I am asking tough questions here.

Triple J