Friends: Season 5--New perspectives

[TripleJ]

Okay, since you are purposely sabotaging your IM so you can't chat with me, I guess I will have to break communication silence and let my voice be heard on your thread!

I seem to have trouble unsticking myself when I find myself questioning Mr. Wonderful's responses or motives. Or in this case, my own.

I guess I have a question back for you and anyone else... is it important to take care of this stuff in one phone call?

Have you noticed lately the responses of Mr. W when you do call back after an intial convo? Seems to me his responses are about what you DON'T expect, that he did not think the things that you were thinking.

You call back saying your a butthead, but he tells you your not. Hmmmmmm...........

i have a suggestion. How about starting to take Mr. W's responses for what they are worth. His responses.

It seems to me there is alot of overanalysis as to what Mr. W is thinking, but lately, he has been telling you, correct? After all, he did admit that he had "bottle flu" and a possible mild case of MARS, right? And he admitted (although foolishly) he played QUARTERS to get the "flu". These are all important because he is opening up to you more.

This is something that your not used to Bets, and I think it has you spooked maybe, maybe a little on the unbelieveable side.

For the past some odd months, you have had sort of a routine. With the schedule of the kids and who has them when, a little deviation from that leaves you with "what do I do now?"

Please correct me if I am wrong.

His offering to take the girls when you are supposed to have them is a getsure of kindness with no ulterior motive behind them, from the seat I am in (make no mistake people, i make this statement in regards to Mr. W ONLY). After all, he is asking you to do a favor for him, its just his offering to balance the scale.

Your comms with him have been absolutely tremendous lately. So yes, quit second guessing yourself, if you are.

And remember, you don't have to call back IMMEDIATELY if you do second guess yourself.

Remember the key word here is PATIENCE!!!!!!!!
(inside joke here people)

Big Big Hugs to you!

Triple J