Friends: Season 5--New perspectives

[SadBurl]

Thank you for your words and making me look at things in a different light. I applaud you for your conversation with Mr w. You did wonderfully. Bottle it and send it over to me.

I was very interested in your comments about H childhood. My H joined the army when he was 16 and stayed in til he was 22. He had a hard time in there to begin with a lot of bullying which was hard coming from a home with a violent father. MIL left him when H was 12 and remarried (a wonderful man who was and is very good to H) When he left he had just married and well I guess he didn't really have a chance to experience a "college life" like he seems to be doing at the mo. I on the other hand did. Partied for 4 years at uni (just about managed to get a degree ) and then for 2 years in New York. So i got it out of my system (well almost I do like a good party)

My question is: Do you need to experience the lack of 20's-life in your mid-life if you missed out the first time around?