Hurray for you for letting him do these acts of service, Bets!! Although I'd have to subtract a point or to for telling him you were on your way to do it yourself... time to play the damsel, if you can. Take advantage of him trying to save you in these tiny ways... well, not so tiny really. Gee, D7, the hot tub, the lawn... do I see a white horse? Enjoy, Betsey. I see a whole man approaching...let him.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.