Betsey- I am going to gently put in my perspective. It is really good that he is able to take these kinds of intense and possibly uncomfortable discussions and actually respond. I know you have said that MW has usually been able to talk - it is a good thing.
He is sharing some feelings with you that are really important to him. As we all know, Betsey, you have been working on yourself for two years. Apparently he has been running somewhat from his feelings - maybe because he felt since he left that he didn't have the right to have those feelings. Now he is relying on the safety of talking with you to communicate some of those feelings. This is a great thing, because it means no matter what happens between you two from now on, you will be able to communicate.
This was not a resolution for you, and because I am your friend and I love you, I hate that. My question is, when is part 2 of the letter coming?
Alos, I am SO PROUD of you for not crazymaking. You are the woman!!!! Lots of love, Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
