Thanks for coming back to update us. It is quite important to us here to know that couples get back together long term, and that reconciliations are not just flashes in the pan, or temporary fixes for loneliness, confusion, whatever.
And we need to know that 'getting back together' is not done and dusted in a couple of weeks, that the R takes continual maintenance. Any relationship, but especially a marriage, is like cultivating a gardern - it needs care, attention and maintenance! Nurturing too - that's a nice word.
I couldn't link to the article, it said, 'page not found'. Can you help?
As for your offer to help with insights, yes please!
Can you tell us anything that your H told you about how he saw things from his point of view - how he came to see that coming back to you was best, why, and how difficult it was. What did you do to make it possible for him - when he must have had to deal with issues such as losing face, admitting he was wrong, reversing stuff he told you at the time of the bombshell, fear that things would go back to the same old same old, etc etc.
Thanks.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
