Quote: BUt it is moments like that that I need to remind myself to ask for what I want - not to fume about it silently.
Boy have you hit the nail on the head! I realize when I am fuming, somewhere hidden in the fuming is something I could have been doing to help offset this drama! A continuing learning process.
Sorry for all the hardships you two are facing, but glad H has you to turn to.
I finally couldn't keep my mouth shut any longer and blurted out one night when he was going to put his ring back on. He was waiting for valentine's day as a present (I later found out), but instead said, whey don't you go get it and put it on. Goes back to the ask for what you want.
