We are friends in a sense that we can still laugh together and go out to eat or a movie. We are there to support each other (even though my H RARELY talks about anything to me). But there is just still something missing. I dont see that smile that I used to see from him when we wouuld talk. I think he has a lot going on in his head with his work and stuff and he doenst talk about it with me. I think that might be one thing that is holding things back with us. But I am not sure how to get him to open up.
When I think back of when we first met, we were always talking, cuddling, smiling. We dont do that anymore...I try, but I get no response and I am trying to keep the "affection" to a minimum.